Tuesday, December 6, 2016

Christmas Hassle: The Lord is Near

When circumstances look dire or just annoying, be suspicious. God is up to something good! A little over a week ago, I saw this first hand.

When I topped the hill at the entrance to the Costco parking lot, I was surprised to see it packed with cars. I mean Gee Whiz! It was Monday, November 28th, not Christmas Eve. I had to park a good distance from the entrance to the giant box store. Thinking about the crowds of people that obviously came with all those cars, Not-Joy, what I call the wicked side of myself, started up with the doom and negativity dreading having to maneuver through crowded isles.

 My family can testify.  I have a history of frustration, discomfort and impatience with crowds of people. The noise, the oblivious shoppers who park there buggies on one side of the isle and stand in the middle of the remaining space so there’s no way to past them, quickly or otherwise, can prick easily annoyed Not-Joy who lurks  just waiting to spew her venom.

But I was faced with a decision, give into Not-Joy or was I going to “listen” to the soothing, calming leading of the Holy Spirit. “Let your gentle spirit be known to all men. The Lord is near.[1]” Real-Joy won out. 

Allowing the Holy Spirit to do some correction in my thinking, I changed it to, “This is good to park out here. There’s a shade tree so Bear will be cool (this was the last warm day we had) and I’ll get more steps in, more exercise.  Thank you Lord for helping me to stay disciplined to the exercise I need.”

There was a bit of a crowd in the store.  People did block isles with their buggies, I was bumped a few times, but I was able to make my selections and head to check out.

Rounding the corner of the ‘nut isle’ I faced a crowd of people there divided into 5 or 6 lines.  Not-Joy was sorely tempted to get frustrated; but again, whispered in my thoughts “Let your gentle spirit be known to all men. The Lord is near.[2]” Real Joy whispered in my thoughts, “Thank you Lord for your peace”.

Much to my delight, the lines started to move quickly. I was up to the checkout counter and handing over my card in less than five minutes.  The joy at such a simple action just bubbled out.  I looked at the cashier and Real-Joy said, “You know with all these people in here, y’all are doing a great job of getting folks checked out quickly.”

She smiled and said, “Thank you so much.” Pointing to a man standing over near the wall, she said, “See that guy over there. (I thought the grumpy looking one but didn’t say it.)He’s our boss.  Would you tell him that?”

“Sure, I’d be happy too.”

So I pushed my buggy over to where he was frowning in an intense conversation.

Again Real-Joy was motivated, “Excuse me. I just wanted to let you know that your cashiers, especially Anna, are doing a great job handling all these people and getting them out quickly.”
The grumpy countenance disappeared and was replaced by a relieved half-smile.  He exhaled loudly and replied, “Thank you so much for saying that! I really needed to hear that! Especially today.”
Real-Joy couldn’t help herself, “Merry Christmas!”

I left Costco with the groceries I needed but more importantly with great joy in my heart.  I was so blessed to see what how a gentle kind spirit motivated by the nearness of the Lord could bless a stranger or two.

I leave you with this encouragement. The Christmas season is stressful. Satan is just lurking waiting to trip up a belabored Christian to be ill-tempered and a failure at letting your “gentle spirit be known to all me”. Suppress that complaining spirit, take a breath every day, every hour or every minute and allow the peace of the Lord by the power of the Holy Spirit to calm you. Every sparkling ornament, every red bow, every present given or received, even the crowds of people are opportunities to remind us “The Lord is near”!



[1] New American Standard Bible: 1995 Update (LaHabra, CA: The Lockman Foundation, 1995), Php 4:5.
[2] New American Standard Bible: 1995 Update (LaHabra, CA: The Lockman Foundation, 1995), Php 4:5.

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